I was having a very deep conversation with a good friend who's going through some serious issues with her 14 year old son.
First she discovered that he masturbates a couple times a day, and puts his cum on his little brothers play table. She was so alarmed by this that she went and talked to her next door neighbor who is a child therapist, and the therapist told her that his masturbating was not normal.
What the FUCK??
Where the hell did she get her degree from?
It doesn't take a Therapist or a PhD to know that he is at an age where he has a flood of Hormones. However, I am concerned that he's putting his cum on the baby's play table, but he could be just doing that out of stupidity. Some youngsters just do stupid shit out of stupidity, and not necessarily deviance. I was like that as a kid, digging in my nose and putting the boogers on the walls and on cars.
I even discovered my sexuality early (8 years old), and in the most innocent way, by doing something stupid.
Masturbating with my bike!
I remember it vividly. I was waiting in line at the Ice cream truck on my little pink huffy bike with the banana seat. And as I was standing with the bike between my legs, I would rock the bike side by side so that the seat would rub up against my vagina. It wasn't long before I was putting my fingers down there. And I guess around 11 was when I decided to go a little further, and there was a boy in my neighborhood who was about 17 who would come over everyday before school and eat my pussy. I'd sneak him in my parent's side door while they were sleeping, and we'd go to the patio where this guy would eat me out. Now, was I abused by this young man? Legally YES. But personally....HELL NO!
That's why it's important that you make it easy for your kids to talk to you about sex, and never stutter when they bring it up. I'm very candid with my 9 year old son, and he can tell me ANYTHING and he does. That way, if he ever has any problems, I can precisely pinpoint what going on through our conversation, and help him find a solution.
That's why communication is VERY important; because a lot of kids out there fuck themselves up when they don't have proper guidance. We see it in society 24/7
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