OK, if you grew up in this age of MTV and BET, you'd probably say after watching a rap video with half naked gyrating black chicks that," Black girls are definitely freakier than their white counter-parts".  Well aside from the fact that black girls enjoy "vanilla sex" and occasionally showing off our bodies from time to time, for the most part, black chicks are pretty fucking prudish when it comes to sex, or simply want to give off the impression that they are!

See, it all began at home for the black woman, and her growing up in the Pentecostal and Baptist churches.  All of our lives we have been taught that although sex is good, there are particular acts that black girls just shouldn't participate in, like sucking dick.  I remember a day an age when black women would give you the fiercest grimace if you mentioned anything about putting a dick anywhere near her face, let alone in her mouth.  Now a day's it seems that a lot of black women are either becoming more open to kinkier sex, or have simply given in due to the fear of loosing their men to less prudish white women.  But oh my black brothers, you men have also participated in this phenomenon of kink-less black women, by the mere gesture that kinkier black women are dirty, filthy whores who will never become marriage material.  So in the end we become petrified of earning negative over-sexed reputations.

I had this discussion with my best girlfriend who disagrees with me.  She makes the assertion that black women are just as kinky as white women, but if you ask her to describe something "Kinky", her description of Kink is rather juvenile!  She says she likes to be spanked, sucking dick, and talked dirty to.  I just laughed at her because those things aren't kinky at all.  Those things are rather vanilla if you ask me!  Now ask me what's kinky to me, and here's my answer!

-Simulated Rape

-Rim Jobs

-Glory Holes

-Golden showers

-Mud Baths

-Torture

-Mutilation

-Strangulation

-Sissy training

-Piercing

-Sadism

-Masochism

-Sadomasochism

Well of course a hooker is going to know what's kinky, that's my job!

In the end, I think that black women have a lot to learn about sex and administering pleasure without guilt or reluctance.  We have tons to learn about tapping into our inner Sex Goddesses, all while maintaining our self respect and dignity!