I have come to the conclusion that in order for me to "Blacklist" someone, they would have to be an absolute threat- and what I mean by "threat" is financial, physical, or emotional.  So one thing you will never catch me doing is blacklisting someone who's never caused me any harm. 

Case in point, there is a new phenomenon with providers blacklisting and blasting other providers for not giving references or returning phone calls.  Sure, I can understand that the lack of timely referencing is costing you potential clients and cash, but no harm was done, so why blacklist or blast the girl.  This is why it's imperative that we find other means of screening clients, and not just relying on provider references.  Many providers go on hiatus or they retire, so should you blacklist her because she doesn't return your call.  HELL NO!  What if her phones been disconnected or changed, then what will you do?  You really have to think about that and consider those things a possibility, then find an alternative method to screen!

Many girls have their own personal reasons for not giving references, and to be perfectly honest, I R-A-R-E-L-Y use provider references because my methods are far superior and quicker.  Besides, there are only a handful of providers in the area that I even trust to give me that sort of information anyway. So I'm not about to accept a reference from some young chick with only 2 months of hooking under her belt.  Oh Please!

Ladies, it's not the provider's job to keep you safe, that's your job!  And if a provider isn't giving references or returning phone calls, then "chalk it up to the game", and move on. 

If you need alternative screening help, contact me.....

Erika