There comes a time in every working girls life when she encounters a "real" connection with her clients. You know the kind of connection that goes beyond sex and services. If the escort is great at what she does and has that winning personality, then it's guaranteed that her clients will genuinely care about her, and have great concern for her well being.
Society and the media has it all wrong as usual, when they make the assertion that "hookers" and "johns" as they so eloquently label us, have no real connection outside of sex and money. Not to mention how the government has systematically made prostitution into this illegal repugnant act between two sick individuals. But let me stress that this is the same government that once said that blacks weren't human, instead they were mere property, and that women weren't allowed to vote. So you can only imagine my sheer disdain for everything "The powers that be" stand for. Ok, enough of that, sorry for the digression.
Well sometimes the sex worker/client relationship becomes somewhat "abnormal", meaning that here we have a married man falling in love with a "sex worker". Here we have a married man trying to maintain two households, his mistress's household and his. This is when things become awkward and annoying for both individuals. For the sex worker, it's more emotional because she has become attached to what this man offers her financially. If she's one of those lonely women, then she begins searching for that relationship with this married man, which is virtually impossible for him to maintain, especially if the sex worker is clingy and needy. One thing that a lot of people fail to realize is that we are woman first, then hookers, so we have all of those romantic emotions that most women have, especially when it deals with the men who takes care of our financial needs. It's only natural for a sex worker to have an affection for her clients that treat her well.
Then we have the "Captain-save-a-ho" type, the type of man who promises to sweep you off your feet and take you away from all this prostitution madness. They type of man that calls his favorite escort 30 million times a day, driving her absolutely INSANE! He's also the cheapskate client who feels that since he's developed a "special" bond with the escort, that he is entitled to discounts and extended time without paying for it. He goes from escort to escort comparing rates and continuously haggling...So Tacky! I have a regular client that actually discussed what I charge him with another provider in hopes of getting the same rate from her. He told her that he was "grandfathered" into a low rate with me. I was absolutely LIVID when she told me this. What the fuck was he thinking? Ok, sorry, I digressed again!
In the end, it's much easier when the client/sex worker relationship boundaries are securely in tact. No one gets hurt, no one gets stalked, no one feels cheated, and everyone has a good time.
Lets face it ladies, once those emotional relationship develops with clients, our ability to accept money for sex from them becomes a lot harder, and that's when you'll find yourself giving away your product, and that's a no-no in my book! An escort's pussy is like owning a high end fashion boutique, and giving away your production is never conducive to good business practice!
Erika
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